Before diving into examples, here's a framework that we use:
Introduction
Briefly introduce yourself and your relationship to the bride.
About the Bride
Share a sweet or humorous memory that highlights her character.
About the Partner
Include a story or observation about how the partner complements the bride.
About the Couple
Reflect on their relationship’s strengths and your wishes for their future.
Toast
End with a sincere toast inviting guests to raise their glasses.
Below are some examples demonstrating how tone and style can vary while following the five-step framework.
Example A: Best Friend Tribute
“Good evening everyone. I’m Emma, Bride’s Name’s best friend since kindergarten. From our epic sleepover adventures to late-night heart-to-hearts, you’ve always been my rock. Watching you with Groom’s Name, I’ve seen you shine brighter than ever, his kindness and humor bring out your happiest self. Here’s to a lifetime filled with laughter and love. Cheers!”
Example B: Sisterly Love
“Hello everyone, I’m Sarah, proud sister and Maid of Honor. Growing up, I knew my big sister would find someone worthy of her endless compassion. Groom’s Name, thank you for cherishing her the way she deserves. May your partnership always be as strong as our sibling bond. To love, laughter, and happily ever after!”
Example C: Humorous Icebreaker
“Hi all, I’m Rachel, Bride’s Name’s college roommate and comedic sidekick. We survived questionable hairstyles and failed cooking experiments together—yet here she stands, radiant and stylish. Groom’s Name, welcome to the madness. May your life together be as fun as our DIY disasters!”
Example D: Inclusive and Heartfelt
“Good evening! I’m Alex, honored to be Bride’s Name’s Maid of Honor. Your journey together has been an inspiration celebrating every milestone with joy and resilience. Groom’s Name, your unwavering support has made her glow brighter each day. Here’s to a marriage built on equality, respect, and endless adventure.”
Using the temple, here's a Maid of Honor speech example.
Introduction
Good evening, everyone. For those who don’t know me, I’m Emma, Bride’s Name’s childhood best friend and honored Maid of Honor. We met when we were five, bonding over shared crayons and secret clubhouses. Little did I know our friendship would lead me here tonight to celebrate the most special day of her life.
Tribute to the Bride
From our epic sleepover confessions to spontaneous road trips, Bride’s Name has always been the heart and soul of any adventure. Her kindness shines through when she rescues stray animals, and her strength shows in every challenge she overcomes. Watching her grow into the extraordinary woman she is today has been my greatest privilege.
Celebrating the Groom
When Bride’s Name first introduced us to Groom’s Name, I saw her eyes light up in a way I had never seen before. His humor, compassion, and unwavering support complement her perfectly. Together, they bring out the best in each other, and I couldn’t be happier to welcome Groom’s Name into our circle of crazy friends and loving family.
Stories of the Couple
• First Road Trip Mishap: On their first weekend getaway, they got lost for three hours but turned it into an impromptu sightseeing adventure. This is proof that together, they can make magic out of any detour.
• Support Through Tough Times: When Bride’s Name faced a career crossroads, Groom’s Name stood by her side, offering unwavering encouragement and a volunteer sounding board for her endless ideas.
Words of Wisdom
Marriage is a journey of love, laughter, and occasional detours. My wish for you is to always communicate openly, cherish the small moments, and hold onto the humor that brought you together. Remember to dance in the kitchen, laugh until your sides hurt, and be each other’s biggest fans every single day.
Closing Toast
Please raise your glasses. To Bride’s Name and Groom’s Name: May your life together be filled with endless love, joyful adventures, and unforgettable memories. Thank you!
Lastly, here are some tips for a stellar delivery.
• Practice Aloud: Rehearse to refine pacing and emotion.
• Maintain Eye Contact: Engage guests and the couple for authenticity.
• Use Minimal Notes: Bullet points help stay on track without scripted reading.
• Balance Tone: Blend humor with sincerity to suit your style and the audience.